Anonymous asked: Okay, Me and my bestfriend haven't been the best since her mom passed away last year and she's had to move. I feel like me and her are drifting apart after 6 years she doesn't talk to me as much and half the time doesn't reply to my messages I have no idea what to do I don't want to lose her.
Friends often drift apart when distance gets in the way. It’s probably no fault of yours. A new town comes with new friends, new experiences, and new responsibilities. Losing her mom might have also made her lose sight of herself and the people she loves.
I think you should just talk to her directly about it. But try not to have that conversation over text; better to call and hear her voice and let her hear yours. Don’t bring it up immediately either. Just chat with her a bit, and then ask her in a gentle way.
“Hey ___, I feel like we have kind of drifted part and I just wanted to make sure everything is okay, but you’re like my sister and I don’t want to lose you.” Or something like that.
Good luck my love! I hope everything works out <3